Ta’aruf is dating muslim (part 1)

Ta’aruf is part of the Islamic culturewhen it comes to the relationship men and women. Ta’aruf is the best way to get a prospective wife without dating process, in Islam law dating is “haram”. So the only  one a way to find prospective wife is ta’aruf. You have to know more about the woman’s reputation and her family before you you go for Ta’aruf.

 Inthe of process ta’aruf  men and women can ask in detail such as about bad and good habits, life, friendship and pretty much everything they want to know about eachother as long as it is done in a respectable way. When ta’aruf men and women accompanied by their parents as a mediator. This is difference between ta’aruf and dating, ta’aruf more Gentleman because more responsible than dating. In ta’aruf  a man cans see woman face if she wears Burqah (veil) and can take hold her hand.

There is a following steps for ta’aruf.

At first Ask the person who are considered closest to candidate who can be trusted, Inshallah God will give we are enough information objectively. From here we can identify how a women who will could be your future wife will build household together. Said a poem ‘If you want to ask about a person ask a trusted person who is closest with person (friend), because person can  explain from their friendship and social.” Then after having a strong tendency to marry her the next step is introduction, go to women house’s (ta’aruf) and meet with her parents and say to her parents I want married your child, but don’t forget still maintaining the norms of Islam.

Why should i o for ta’aruf?

Because Marriage begins with ta’aruf is like as you want buy a Car in dealer, generally at first you will ask about the car, how speed, fitur etc. But are you can try drive the Car ?….NO.., you can’t try to drive before you buy and you only can ask about his car ,, Actually it look likes ta’aruf . But if you Buy a car not in dealer, perhaps you can try to drive but the car not guarantee, perhaps second car who ever accident and broke,  Or other,,,

how more expensive Car in dealer or not ? true..in dealer more expensive,, it’s likes ta’aruf with ta’aruf women more appreciated.

So are you ready for ta’aruf..or learn islam more,,

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