Your Husband is your life partner;both of you work together and face every problem that each of you have and fight through them together. This makes your relationship with your husband even stronger, but you never know when something bad may happen. It might be a thing you did, or a thing you didn’t do, something totally silly and stupid may break your marriage. Even though it varies from husband to husband, you should treat your husband the way you would want to be treated, and having said that we will mention some of the guidelines.
First of all, you should always treat your husband with respect and nicely. It doesn’t matter who earns more in the marriage, or who works more, there should always be a mutual respect, and if that respect does not come from you, you won’t get that respect from your Husband.
Then what comes next is to understand. There are a lot of things that you might not like about your husband; he might be an avid smoker or a drinker. He might be a workaholic, or he might simply be distant and reserved.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that you should have an argument with him about these matters. You should try to understand his problem and help him get over it. Yes, there might be times when he will not understand, but try not to get mad as it leads to nothing good. If you have to have an argument, try to talk it out and get to the root of the problem; screaming at one another leads to nowhere.
Now, women are compassionate creatures, whereas men are mostly opposite of that. Try to know what your husband likes, and do it more often. Simple things can make a man happy; a romantic dinner, or little gifts, presents, surprises, etc. These things are more than capable of getting the most out of your husband. Sometimes, things as simple as letting him watch the Saturday football match can go a very long way.
You should try to keep records of the memorable things that show how you have led with him to a happy life. When you feel that he has forgotten, show him. remind him of your love. Show him how he married you in the first place, and why you are the one for him.
The last and the most important of all is not to hide anything ever. Men by nature are suspicious, even if they act like they don’t care, they do. Never hide anything from your husband, every single feeling that you feel, tell him. If you are sad, tell him. If you are happy, tell him. You should also encourage this in your husband; secrecy is what leads to divorce.
These are simple guidelines to tell you how you should treat your husband, but if they are too hard to follow, always remember that telling the three simple words every single day can go a long way, “I Love You”.
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